How to Prepare for a Family Photo Session (Without the Stress)
Tips for looking great, staying relaxed, and making real memories on photo day.
Getting ready for family photos doesn’t have to feel like prepping for a red carpet appearance—though you will look fabulous. With a little planning and a few tried-and-true tips, your photo session can be smooth, fun, and full of genuine connection.
Let’s walk through what really matters.
Plan Outfits Early (And Make Sure They Fit!)
Deciding what to wear for your family photo session can be one of the most time consuming but also important aspects of preparing for your session. Choose your outfits ahead of time and ensure all family members have their full outfits planned from shoes to accessories.
Lay outfits together on a bed or hang side-by-side on hangers to make sure no articles of clothing overpower the rest. Have children try on their clothing in advance - knowing they will be comfortable and that clothes fit properly is key.
If you have an early spring or late fall session think about bringing layers to keep children warm. Jean jackets, knitted beanies, leggings or tights offer an extra layer of warmth but still look great in photos.
👉 Need more outfit inspiration? Check out my guide on what to wear for family photos.
2. Don’t Forget The Little Detials
Before heading to your photo session, consider the little things that may show up in your photos. Remove chipped fingernail polish, temporary tattoos, hair bands from wrists, and distracting or bulky watches. Giving a little extra attention to these small things will leave you with more polished family photos.
Sessions are full of play, so be sure clothing will accommodate movement. Skirts that are too short or tight could make it difficult to sit and snuggle with your child. A low cut shirt could leave you fussing with its arrangement rather than connecting with your family. Shoes should be comfortable for walking in fields or tall grass. Select footwear that is comfortable and classic. Consider adding tights or fitted shorts under dresses or skirts so children can climb, jump, twirl and swing.
3. Do Not Over-Schedule the Day of your Photoshoot
Family life is busier than ever; you’ve got soccer games, dance rehearsals, and a million errands. But photo day is the day to not do it all.
Try to avoid cramming too many activities in before your session. Kids (and grown-ups) do best when they’re not tired, rushed, or hangry. Make sure everyone is well-fed beforehand (or at least has a good snack if dinner is planned for after the session). Low blood sugar doesn’t look good on anyone!
Plan to arrive a few minutes early—just enough time to smooth hair, take a deep breath, and settle in before we start.
4. Remember, Cheese is for Crackers
Please… leave the “cheese” at home. We have all grown accustomed to telling our children to smile, asking them to say cheese and insisting young children look at the camera. However, this results in stressed out children and strained, unnatural photographs. I will always do my best to get a few photos of everyone looking at the camera, however, the most endearing and cherished family photos are those where family members are connecting with one another, showing authentic and genuine emotion. As the photographer I come with tricks up my sleeve, games to play, and when all else fails I simply interact and talk with children to bring out true expressions. Check out how to create beautiful connection in your photos.
5. Pack Light (But Smart)
Remember your family photo session is only an hour and typically doesn’t require you to bring anything other than a set of keys for your car and possibly your cell phone. Extra items are usually just a distraction.
During a session we will explore several different areas within your location. Juggling water bottles and toys can be difficult as we move from place to place and causes candid shots in-between to be cluttered with items you weren’t intending to be photographed. Removing distractions creates a carefree and connected feeling during your photo session.
If you have a young child who insists on a toy or you know someone will need a snack, bring a simple shoulder bag to carry everything in. This will keep all items corralled and even allows me to carry your things if I am shooting as we move from one spot to the next.
One item I DO recommend bringing is a blanket if your family doesn’t feel comfortable sitting directly in the grass. When choosing a blanket, bring something lightweight and easy to carry. Consider your blanket as another article of clothing that can mix with the color palette you have selected for your clothes. Neutrals such as cream, beige, and grey usually blend in well.
6. Most of All, Relax and Enjoy Your People
You booked this session because you want to preserve your family as they are right now. That’s a beautiful thing. So take the pressure off.
Let go of perfection, lean into the chaos, and just be present. Your only job is to love on your family while I work the magic behind the camera. The more fun you’re having, the more beautiful your photos will be.
Want help picking outfits or calming pre-session nerves? I’ve got you. Reach out anytime—I’m here to make the process joyful from start to finish.
